Tori Felder is the creator of The Retired Party Girl, an online community for sober curious/sober women. Tori and I have followed each other on social media for a year - it was so exciting to finally meet! Tori is based in Seattle, USA. In this episode she shares her sober story and her advice for others just starting out a Sober Curious journey.
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Intro
Welcome to the Sober Yoga Girl podcast with Alex McRobs, international yoga teacher and sober coach. I broke up with booze for good in 2019 and now I'm here to help others do the same. You're not alone and a sober life can be fun and fulfilling. Let me show you how.
Alex
All right. Hello everyone and welcome back to another episode of Sober Yoga Girl. I am super excited to have Tori here from Retired Party Girl. And I think I've been following Tori on Instagram for like over a year. So it's super cool to, like, finally meet her in person as you can be on Zoom. So welcome Tori. How are you doing?
Tori
Hi, Alex. Thank you. I am doing well. I just told you about my little pet feeding mishap that just happened before this call. But other than that, I am doing great. How are you?
Alex
I'm good. And you're like literally on the other side of the world. It is 9:00 p.m. where Tori is in Seattle. Right? And it is 8:00 a.m. where I am. It's now 8:00 a.m. in the morning, Abu Dhabi. So, for me, it's Saturday morning. For you, it's Friday night, which is super cool. Yeah. So let's start out with this episode by I just want to get a little bit of a background on you, like who you are, where you're from, what you do, that kind of stuff.
Tori
Yeah, so I live in Seattle. I was pretty much born and raised in Seattle. I say Seattle because I'm actually from a very small town that nobody has ever heard of, like 40 minutes south of the actual city of Seattle called Covington, very, very small town. Like one of my best friends had goats and chickens and horses. So if that could paint the picture for you. That's how small town it was. I am currently in grad school to be a child counselor or child psychologist. We'll figure that out when I get there. And I nanny in between working on RPG.
Alex
Wow. Yeah, I see on your social media all the time. It just seems like you're so full on like running a business and school, having a job. It's wild. It's impressive.
Tori
It's a lot. It is a lot.
Alex
Yeah. I guess when you love what you're doing with the RPG, it's-- do you feel like--
Tori
Yeah. You know, for RPG, it doesn't ever really feel like work because a lot of what I'm doing is like creating connection and making new friends that are more aligned with who I am than before. And so if I spend a weekend doing a virtual retreat or I spend a weekend hosting an event, to me that's like what I would want to be doing with my free time anyway. And so it's so fulfilling and it brings me so much genuine joy that it doesn't always feel like work. Sometimes it does. Like I'm not going to sit here and say that it doesn't feel like work sometimes because creating content can be tough when you're constantly trying to think of ideas. And then you have, you know, I have deadlines for school and everything like that. So the balance of it can be really tough. But as far as like the social aspect and growing the community and getting to know people within the community and spending time with them, that's not work to me at all. Like, that's so joyful for me that it doesn't feel like work.
Alex
Yeah. And when you're talking to that, it sounds like me and my-- I have like an online sober yoga community. And like, I would say the same thing. Like people say to me often they're like, Alex, you need to get some, like, friends other than your clients. And I'm like, I-- but, why?
Tori
Oh my gosh, that is so funny. Yeah. All of my friends for a while were just on the Internet and I'm like, okay, what does this say about me? But because I just met all these incredible sober people through RPG that just happen to live other places in the world. And I was like, okay, I should probably start making some like in-person connections so that not every single friend is virtual at this point.
Alex
Yeah, I totally get it. I totally get it. So let's go back a little bit. And I was wondering if you could tell me a bit about like when you started drinking and what things influenced your drinking?
Tori
Oh my gosh. Yeah. So I started drinking and partying very young. Thirteen, fourteen, I was hanging out with older people. A lot of things influenced my drinking. But probably the number one thing was I have a mom who's an alcoholic and then a dad who-- drug addict, alcoholic, but wasn't my primary caregiver, so kind of like in and out of the picture. But I mean, I don't remember a time without alcohol in my life. Like, I remember being eight years old and knowing that my mom was drunk, by the way her lips looked or by the way she was talking and not being able to really. Process that in a way where I was like, oh, this makes me feel bad, but I knew that she was different when she drank and I knew that I felt unsafe when she drank. And that was as young as eight years old, 2nd grade. So there really was never, ever a time that I remember where drinking wasn't a large part of my life. And then it was always, I'll never be like her. I'll never drink like that as I got older. And, you know, I started hanging out with older people and that's what people did in my small town to, you know, have the time pass. And yeah, it went from drinking to ecstasy. I tried to crack one time when I was blacked out drunk, molly, cocaine. And then it just kind of spiraled from there.
Alex
So how did your drinking or your drug use escalate over time?
Tori
Oh my goodness. Well, I think it just kind of changed shape. So when I was younger, it was more house parties and things like that. And then I got to be in my early 20s and it was really normalized for all of us to get dressed up and go out on a Friday night and black out. And we'd wake up and we'd laugh about how we didn't remember what happened or we didn't remember who we hooked up with or where so-and-so ended up because we lost them at some point in the night or how much money we had spent on the Uber and looking at our bank account and kind of making light of this really horrible toxic lifestyle. And I did that the whole going out getting dressed up thing for me until I stopped drinking. So from the time I turned probably 20... to the time I stopped drinking and I was 25, almost 26 at the time and I'm 27 now. So it just, it changed shape but it was always the same thing. It was always really toxic. I never really had control over it. I always felt anxiety, always. There was never a time when I was drinking where I woke up the next morning and felt really cool about the things that I did the night before. It was always anxiety inducing for me because I had anxiety and PTSD from my childhood and the drinking and drug use just made it so much worse. It was adding fuel to the fire. So the anxiety was always there. The poor decisions were always there. The blacking out was always there. It just looked different the older I got.
Alex
And what was the moment that made you, like, want to quit or want to stop drinking?
Tori
There wasn't a moment which is so funny because I feel like I get asked that a lot. There wasn't a moment. It was all of these little moments where, you know, I'd be laughing about the things that we would laugh about that weren't funny as far as what-- how we got home or this and that. And deep inside, I wasn't laughing. And that happened over and over and over again to the point where I couldn't laugh about it anymore. And we were getting older. And when I say we, I mean, like my friend group that I was partying with. But I should say I was getting older. And the final straw for me, which is not at all the worst thing that has ever happened when I was drinking, it just happened to be the last thing was I went to New Jersey with my boyfriend at the time to meet his dad's side of the family. It was during the holidays and they're Jewish. So we were celebrating Hanukkah over a period of time and there was a lot of wine and there was a lot of drinking and drinking was very normalized in his family. And there was one night where I drank more than everybody else in the family. A large group of people were there. And then I remember in the morning looking over at my boyfriend and kind of having this pit in my stomach that I knew he was mad at me and kind of being like, good morning, you know, are you mad at me? And he looked at me and said, I don't know how to say this, but you really embarrassed me last night. And I think that was really triggering for me specifically because I remember saying those exact words to my mom.
Alex
Wow.
Tori
When you go to functions or she would meet friend's parents, or we would be anywhere social and she would get drunk and she would embarrass me. And I would tell her the next day, you really embarrassed me. Why did you have to get so drunk? And that was coming from his mouth. And so for me, it was a really big mirror in my face. And that was actually the day before New Year's Eve of 2019 going into 2020. At the time we had no idea what 2020 was going to be. We had no idea. So I decided I was going to stop drinking. I didn't really have a long term plan, I just kind of set in my head, that was a horrible feeling. I'm not going to do that again. And then 2020 happened and all of these like weird things were aligning in that. I wasn't working at my regular job anymore. And I started talking about my sober journey online and then started creating virtual meetings because everybody else was at home. And little did I know Sober Instagram was a thing and people were also struggling the same way I was with their drinking. And then RPG just kind of blossomed in the way that it has because I think there was a lot of things at play. But one of the things was that a lot of us were at home isolated away from people and fed up with our drinking.
Alex
Yeah. It's like grown so quickly, like I've been following along. And it just seems like you're almost out like 20K followers now. Right? It just seems like it's just there's so many-- you're reaching so many people which is amazing.
Tori
Thank you. Yeah. You know, I think there's a reason why Sober Instagram is a thing and the reason why there are so many of us who are connecting with each other in the space and we're all around the same age.
Alex
Yeah.
Tori
It's because there's so many different alcoholic or recovery communities that missed the mark on us, on the gray area drinkers, on the middle area where we weren't ready to say, I'm an alcoholic. But we were willing to say, I don't like the way drinking makes me feel.
Alex
Totally, and I know when I was looking for communities or programs, there was such a limited availability for me, like here in the Middle East, AA doesn't even really exist that much. There's a little bit of it like I think there's four, not four episodes, four meetings in Abu Dhabi a week. But that was it. Like, right, there was there was nothing. And so there's really a need for it. And I think a lot of people in the Sober Instagram world have sort of creating what they almost wish they had when they were getting sober, you know.
Tori
One hundred percent. I mean, I found Sober Instagram and I about had a heart attack. I was like, what is this magical place that makes sobriety look cool and fun and flirty and sassy? And it's something I can flaunt and be proud of instead of feel shame about. And I guess, I was like, what a magical space this is. My mind was completely blown.
Alex
Absolutely. And so tell me about in your journey getting sober, like, what was the hardest part about it?
Tori
That's a really good question. I think what continues to be the hardest part and what has been the hardest part is not romanticizing drinking. So even though I know I live this really beautiful sober life, it's something I believe in with my whole heart, I believe in it more than anything. I know that I'm living a joyful sober life. There are still times when the sun is shining and it's hot out. And I'm like looking at people sitting on a patio enjoying tacos and margaritas. And I'm like, that seems like a really good idea. And it's a fleeting thought, but it's something that I have to constantly work at. The longer I'm sober is not romanticizing drinking because maybe those people can have margaritas and have a taco and go home and maybe they don't like shit in the morning and maybe they don't make fights with their boyfriends and maybe they don't wake up with debilitating anxiety and depression. But for me, I couldn't have that margarita. I would have three margaritas and then want to go to tequila shots at the bar next door and then come home and create a mess of my life and then feel horrible the next day. And so it's a constant battle for me to remember my why and to stay grounded in that, this is the life that I want to live and that I will continue to live. And so sometimes it's playing the tape forward, which is something we talk about a lot in the sober spaces of, what would happen if I did do that? And that helps. And it comes and goes in waves like there's been six month periods where I really haven't had that thought. And then there will be three month periods where I had that thought once every two weeks. So just kind of like rolling with all the things that come with being sober and in a society that's obsessed with alcohol. So I think it would be different had we live in a society where there's not alcohol, commercials on the TV with a grown or bathing suit, and, you know, she's not hungover, she's not sloppy. She's like doing great. She's playing beach volleyball while drinking beer, which I've never done in my life. Yeah, for the world we live in makes it extra, extra hard. But I think the biggest thing for me as far as a challenge is just not romanticizing drinking and staying grounded in that, this is the life that I chose and that I want to continue to choose.
Alex
Totally. Yeah. And I think that concept of like romanticizing the drink really touches on something that I really gained more and more awareness of the longer I was sober was like how my thoughts shaped my reality. Right? And you can shape-- you can decide like, oh, I'm so lucky that I get to be sober and not hungover or you can be in this headspace of like, this sucks. I wish I was drinking with them. And like, you can create a shitty situation just out of, like, what you're thinking, you know.
Tori
... feeling, too. And that's the thing is I have to be aware of how I'm feeling like am I hungry? Did I not get much sleep last night? Am I stressed about school work? Is that why I'm being so pissy about not being able to have a margarita? Because there are some days where I'm like, oh, look at them having that margarita. That sucks. Like, it probably tastes terrible because in reality, tequila doesn't taste good. I don't care who you are or what you say. Tequila does not taste good. So it just, you're so right. It really just depends on your perspective.
Alex
Yeah. And there's so many other, as you mentioned, there's so many other factors that like, it's just like gaining an awareness of like what's really going on and not acting on those, you know, impulses and habit loops that we once did.
Tori
Absolutely. One hundred percent. Yeah. And I think sobriety for me has been-- the biggest thing it's done is just made a more conscious person. I'm not only aware drinking, but I'm aware of everything else. I'm aware of other people drinking. I'm aware of my friendships, I'm aware of my relationship patterns. I'm aware of my triggers. I'm aware of why I would drink, what point would I get to where I felt like drinking to the point of blacking out, to the point of falling over, puking on myself like my body was giving up on me. I was completely poisoned to the point where I was puking, falling, having to be taking care of. What led me to that point? So the biggest thing sobriety has done I feel like it's just made me more conscious and aware person altogether.
Alex
Yeah. And that was kind of going to bring me to my next question. I was going to ask you, like, what are the best parts of being sober?
Tori
Oh my gosh. Everything, everything, everything, everything. It's amazing. It's so amazing. Man, I love getting to know myself. That's been so fun and thrilling to figure out who I actually am and what I actually like to do and the people I actually want to spend my time with. I've made a ton of new connections that are so much more aligned with who I actually am. I've tried a bunch of things, some that stock and some that didn't. I remember I just moved out of my old apartment and I moved into a new place earlier this month and I was going through all of my old stuff. And I found this box, that to me represented my early sobriety, and it had all these, like, watercolor paintings that I did in early sobriety. And this was when the pandemic was like real-real. People were not leaving their houses pandemic. And so I bought watercolor paints from Amazon and I thought that was going to be my thing. And I remember I would watercolor paint these flowers and I would be like, who wants a handwritten love letter from me on Instagram? And that's how I spent my time, was I would watercolor these flowers and send people love letters in the mail. And it just reminded me of, like early sobriety, figuring out what it was that I wanted to do with all this extra free time. And I just like wanted to hug younger me and be like, oh, you're trying to figure it out. I love that. So I think the best part is just getting to know yourself and trying things. If they work, they work. If they don't, they don't. That's okay. And just getting to know myself, but also other people who are in similar stages of their lives where they're ready to do the healing. They're ready to do the work and, men, everything about it has been a really, really joyful, also the childlike joy. I think when you make sober friends be like can't drink wine as a social lubricant. So it can be awkward. You know, it's like, we're on a girl date and I want to be your friend and you want to be my friend. And so I found through making sober friends, we do really funny, silly, childlike things that I haven't done since I was a little girl. And it's been so much fun. We did like prank calling. I just want to ocean choice a couple of sober friends and we-- which is so stupid and immature, but we laugh so hard and had such a good game prank calling people. I don't recommend doing that although it's nice to think, but that or going on walks or getting coffee, we'll have an actual deep meaningful conversation. So, everything about it has been really wonderful.
Alex
So true. It's like a lot of the events that I do in Abu Dhabi now. I do a lot of like, sober, sort of brunches and retreats. And there's so much like every time it's like, let's paint a picture, let's make a bracelet, let's-- we're going to make vision boards at my upcoming retreat. And it's just things that you wouldn't do because the events would just be, let's sit at the table and drink. Right. And--
Tori
One hundred percent. They would be centered around alcohol. One hundred percent. We just had a RPG event in partnership with a company called The SoBar. And we had a--
Alex
I saw that. That looked amazing in the tent, right? The branch. Yeah.
Tori
Yeah. I had a really big tent because it was supposed to rain that day, but the sun ended up coming out of Seattle. Anyway, we sat and we talked and we drank alcohol free mimosas for hours and went hours passed when the event was supposed to end. And we were kind of talking and I was like, what? What this event has been real mimosas? And we all just kind of stopped and thought about it for a minute. And one of the girls was like, I would be running to and from the bathroom, you know, having to go to the bathroom. We'd all be talking about what bar we could go to next. And we wouldn't have had the chance to actually talk and get to know each other. But because we were actually sitting there as our true selves for four plus hours, I genuinely got to know everybody in the tent.
Alex
It's amazing.
Tori
Yeah, it's so special. It really is.
Alex
So amazing. Sounds like you do really similar sort of events and things as I do, but like on the other side of the world. So maybe we could link up sometime when covid ends.
Tori
Why are you in-- I don't want to say it wrong.
Alex
Abu Dhabi?
Tori
Abu Dhabi.
Alex
Yeah. I came over here when I was 23 to become a teacher. So I'm from Toronto. And in Canada, the teaching jobs are not very easy to come by. Like once you graduate teachers college, you have to be on the substitute teacher list for a long time. And so they really, really pushed us or like they really encouraged us to seek international jobs, like they had a big recruitment fair. And so I came over here. I moved to Kuwait originally. Oh my God. It's a wild story because Kuwait was alcohol free. And so I was living in this tiny little conservative country, learning how to make my own booze, you know, finding all the ways to get it under the table. And then Abu Dhabi and Dubai is kind of like the party central of the region, because there's so many of these conservative little countries around where expats are living and they want to come and fly here and party. And so I was coming here on the weekend partying all the time. And here it's like, it's so bizarre. It's like totally normal to start drinking at noon on a Friday or weekends or Friday, Saturday. And it's this huge thing, brunches here where people people get drunk from noon to three and it's not the locals. It's like all of us, like the expats. It's like picture, you know, being in an all inclusive Caribbean resort.
Tori
... all friends of the day.
Alex
Yeah. And so and when I got sober, I was genuinely the only person that I knew here, you know, and all my friends were still in this French world. And even because, you know, it's so forbidden as part of the local culture to talk about booze. There's like no one else in the region doing sober work. And so it's just been like, yeah, it was like a super isolating experience. And actually, for a long time I wasn't even posting on social-- I was like very quiet about it. It wasn't trying not to post on social media because I'm a teacher and I'm like, I don't want my student's parents to find this and I'm actually quitting teaching in a couple of weeks. And so I've hit this-- it's almost like this blossoming of like I don't really care anymore. And I feel like that was holding me back for a long time. But, yeah. So moved here was two year contract. Never thought, you know, seven years later and I'm starting a business here and like this is my home so--
Tori
Wow. That is so interesting. Yeah. I had no idea when we were emailing that you were on the other side of the country. And you said, PDT. And I'm like, what is PDT time? I'm trying to think. And I had to Google it, but then I wanted to double check with you that I had that correctly. So wow, what a story. That's incredible.
Alex
Yeah. And so, it's cool because so much of what I do is so international, you know, because I work a lot with expats who are in these like isolated places and it's super cool. We do have some clients in North America and the time zones work really well in that like 4PM here is like 8AM Eastern Standard. So I'm able to do yoga with like people in the morning in North America. But, yeah, that's the story in a nutshell.
Tori
Wow. Yeah, my mom went to the Maldives and it was a-- she's been sober now for two years and she said that she loved it because she didn't have the pressure of drinking because of the non-drinking...
Alex
Right. And that's the thing when you were talking about kind of the culture of booze and, you know, the ads and everything. I was thinking a little bit about, you know, that has been one of the blessings of being here is like even, I mean, it's changing. It's we're becoming more modern and more progressive. So it's changing. But for a long time, like, you couldn't even be sitting on a patio, for example, with a drink that wasn't in a black glass. So they have black wine glasses, black cups, so that you can't even see beer and wine publicly. And like there's no ads, like the alcohol stores are black walls. And so it's just a different world. And, you know, if local people-- it's not being shoved down their throats, you know, it's-- that's been an amazing thing. Once I kind of stepped out of that little brunch like matrix I was living in, I feel like my everyday life, I'm not being forced this whole party thing the way North America does.
Tori
Oh yeah. It's everywhere. I did actually see an alcohol free beer commercial, the Heineken zero beer. So I did see that over when there was Super Bowl. And that was interesting. The way that they market it was like, you can drink, dad, but I'm going to be the driver tonight. And I thought that was even weird. So--
Alex
Yeah.
Tori
Yeah. The marketing and things, I never, ever thought about until I got sober and was introduced to Sober Instagram and read Holly Whitaker's book, Quit Like A Woman.
Alex
It's amazing.
Tori
And yeah, that blew my mind and now I can't unsee it. So once you start to notice it, you can't unsee it.
Alex
Totally. Yeah. Absolutely.
Tori
Yeah.
Alex
All right. Let's talk a little bit about RPG. We've kind of-- you talked about in the beginning, but tell me about like, what inspired you to create RPG? What's your vision for it in the future?
Tori
What's so funny is people ask me that but it was never something I set out to do ever. It was never an intentional game plan that I was going to create the sober community. I was sober for two weeks and I remember this specifically, I was in the car in the morning on my way to work and took a video on my personal Instagram and was like, hey, I am two weeks sober. Are you all interested in me doing something called Sober Diaries where I post the changes I'm noticing and blah, blah, blah, blah? And I think to me that is evidence that even though I didn't say it at the time, I was thinking of this being long term. I didn't know it yet, but my internal self knew it before I actually said it and knew it. So I was really surprised. So many of my friends from high school or people I had met through working and through my life were like, yes, I want to stop drinking too. I hate the way I feel when I drink. And I probably had like less than a thousand followers, just like a normal personal Instagram account. And so I started posting that. I started posting posts. I did like a three month. And then I have a friend who I grew up with named Hannah, who is doing web design. And I was like, listen, I want a place where I can put all of these virtual meetings that I'm doing in one place. And so we created the website. And then I started making all these friends of mine, like I said, my virtual friendships, that took over my life. Here I am a year later and they're like some of my best friends. But I started making all of these virtual friendships, these people that I just adore. And I was so aligned with them and we were getting so much from each other in our meetings and then it just happened. Like it just, RPG just happened. It was so meant to be. It was so aligned with where I was in my life. And the universe just made it kind of happen that way. It was just like one thing led to another thing, led to another thing. The community has grown. We have over 400 members and every single amazing human that is a part of RPG has inspired me to keep going. Like they all have such incredible stories of resilience or incredible stories of strength, like some of these people have been through so much, through so much, so much loss, so much grief, so much pain, so much heartbreak. And they are still such joyful, wonderful, strong people who genuinely want to help other people. It is so inspiring.
Alex
Wow, that's incredible. Four hundred people. You're touching a lot of lives.
Tori
Yeah, and it's been-- Yeah, and then we have people who are also leading the meetings now on their own. We have like our own little subgroups where members of RPG are now hosting RPG meetings. And I just love that it's community led and it's just blossomed just like a really, really beautiful thing. And it's so genuine and it's so intentional. And I'm like, I'm so grateful.
Alex
Yeah. Oh, it's amazing.
Tori
Thank you. Thank you.
Alex
So if you would have any advice for someone who is just starting out a sober journey, thinking about taking a break from drinking, what would it be?
Tori
Okay, so I always go 30 days. This is always, always my advice is to just try 30 days because I have been in cognitive behavioral therapy for six years. I was in therapy when I was blacking out and my therapist tried, bless her heart, for a really long time to try to get me to stop drinking. And there was just no way. I was just not going to listen to her. And she told me, she's like, well, why don't you go 30 days? And me, I'm like, oh, that's a challenge. Sure, I'll go 30 days and I'll show her, you know, that it doesn't make that much of a difference. Whatever. I don't have a problem drinking. So I went 30 days and I absolutely loved it. I went to her office with a list on my phone of all of the credible changes I was seeing in myself. And I listed them off to her and it was all excited. This was a couple of years before I actually got sober. And even though I didn't stay sober that time and it kind of fell to the back burner after a while, that was really when the light switch, switched. And then later, I think if that switch hadn't gone off two years earlier, I wouldn't have been able to really make the change. And so whether you stick with it or not, I think doing 30 days no alcohol will make you realize things about your drinking patterns and if you want to go longer on 30 days, go longer 30 days. You end up going back to drinking, that's fine. But you never know what could switch on years down the road from taking that road.
Alex
So true, and I love that idea of just like dipping in your toes, you know, like when I quit it was 28 days, you know, it was like I'm just going to this challenge. Never foresaw that, you know, two years later I would be Sober Yoga Girl, you know, doing making a career out of it. And so you're totally right in like the whole forever can seem daunting. So just take it bit by bit, chunk by chunk. And you know, it might not-- you know, maybe you take 30 days off and then you go back to drinking and that's okay. And sometimes people need a few little trips around the circle before it sticks. Yeah, that's great advice. Just kind of take it little chunk and see where it leads you.
Tori
Just say, 30 days. You can do it for 30 days. You can do that for 30 days and you don't tell the whole world. You don't need to call yourself sober. You don't need to make a Sober Instagram about it. Just go 30 days and log your feelings. And just, that's it. That's all you have to do. Just start there.
Alex
Yeah, absolutely. Well, as we just kind of wrap up, do you have any events or anything coming up? Like where can my listeners find you online?
Tori
So we actually have a virtual retreat, retreat with the Sober Otter that we're doing tomorrow. It's called Boozeless Boot Camp.
Alex
Amazing.
Tori
But we're going to be doing things like that all the time. I'm hosting an event in New York coming up soon with another girl named Alex Williams in the community. But they can find me at retiredpartygirl.com or on Instagram @theretiredpartygirl.
Alex
Awesome. Well, I'll put your links in the bio of the episode, and it is super-- it was super nice to finally meet you, Tori. I really appreciate it. And I look forward to kind of staying connected and in the sober world.
Tori
Yes, me too. Thank you so much for having me.
Alex
Welcome. Have a great night.
Tori
Thank you too.
Alex
Bye.
Tori
Bye.
Outro
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